Who can relate? 🙋🙋🙋🙋
One of the things that make adulting difficult and not so fun.
This is how I see it though. I will start by saying that I don’t believe you can change people; while you may be able to let them do things for you, you can’t make them want/desire to do them. With that being said, if the subject of your desire requires the wholehearted will/ want (call it whatever) of another individual, then you are going to have to go with the “if it’s meant to happen it will happen.” It doesn’t mean you should be laid back waiting for the manna to fall from heaven. I mean if you really want something, it should show. Just make sure who ever is involved wants it too.
On the other hand if it’s a career, the decision to eat healthy, or a Gucci purse, hey why not? do all u can to get it as long as it’s not going to hurt anybody or compromise their freedom and their being.